Love, like truth or beauty, is concrete. Love is not fundamentally a sweet feeling, not, at heart, a matter of sentiment, attachment or being "drawn toward." Love is active, effective, a matter of making reciprocal and mutually beneficial relation with one's friends and enemies. Love creates righteousness, or justice, here on earth...For this reason, loving involves commitment. We are not automatic lovers of self, others, world, or God. Love does not just happen. We're not love machines, puppets on the strings of a deity called "love." Love is a choice - not simply, or necessarily, a rational choice, but rather a willingness to be present to others without pretense or guile. Love is a convention to humility - a willingness to participate with others in the healing of a broken world and broken broken lives.
(Carter Heyward, 1945 - )
(Carter Heyward, 1945 - )